I(44m) am married to a wonderful woman(42f). We have 2 daughters together, 9 years old and 11 months old. We struggled to have our second for a long time and my wife had multiple miscarriages that significantly affected her and we had given up and joined a couple of adoption lists when she found out she was pregnant again. While we were bed last night, my wife said it was unfair one is making so much more than the other. I answered that there’s nothing we can do about it and it’s a good life lesson for the girls. My wife then suggested we have my daughter use her money to help my stepdaughter buy the same things or we cover the pay difference between the girls. It was our second. I said it was fine to miss. It was awful. Our baby had died in the womb weeks earlier and I hadn’t miscarried it. I sobbed and sobbed and the sweet doctor was so kind. My husband immediately left work and I know he deeply regrets it. So. Think twice about missing those appts.3.1K Likes, 203 Comments. TikTok video from storytellingtales (@story.tellingtales): "AITA for saying things my wife gives our infant in front of our child’s doctor? …Dramatic-Currency289. ADMIN MOD. AITA for saying “you should’ve thought about that before you procreated”? Not the A-hole. My ex and I have a 13 year old daughter, “Nicole”. Nicole has several medical conditions that require a lot of attention. She will need some sort of in home assistance for the rest of her life.I’m just giving a small update. 1)my family is no longer in my life. 2)my wife read the post and comments and she loves all of you but was upset that I said she giggled, she wanted me to clear it up and let you all know it was a full cackle. 3)our little baby is growing and healthy (hoping for a girl)(25:02) - AITA for telling my wife she doesn't need to be with her sick friend at the hospital? (35:03) - AITA for telling my wife to sleep on the couch? (43:43) - AITA for resenting my friend? Have a great week!---Join the newsletter • Follow us on Twitch • Please join us on Patreon. Please join us on Patreon! - …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I asked for some space after my wife told me I won’t be there for the birth of our baby.Multiple people are telling me that she was wrong but I know how she can get but I shouldn’t deny her her grand baby, others are just saying I’m an AH, and my father is on her side to. I honestly think I’m 100% in the right, could be self absorbed of me to say but I do, but everyone else besides my husband think I’m a raging bitch. AITA. Update: aita for telling my wife I can't give our baby fetal alcohol syndrome - 31st August 2023. Thank you everyone for nice comments and helpful advice, a lot it was useful and really saved the day even here. Quickly first a lot of questions asked over and over and over so I have some answers since they keep asking. My FIL recently paid for my and my wife's vacations. When we got to the airport, I realized that my wife had a business class ticket but I was in economy. When I asked my wife why we weren't sitting together in business, she reminded me of a time when I gave my business seat to a woman with a crying baby just to "teach her a lesson." AITA for not siding with my wife. Just for some context, my son (15M) has down syndrome. Ive accepted the fact that, yes, he is different. Learning and socializing will be difficult for him, and that we've got to do the best for him and for others around him so that he can thrive. My wife hasnt accepted these things though, she tries her ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: The action that I took is that I do not want my in laws taking my daughters to Disney for the first time without my wife … AITA for telling my brother's fiance that she and my wife are not in the "same situation". I started dating my wife Anna in middle school. We've been friends, classmates, roommates everything to each other. And given our long history, she's obviously very close to my family. My dad is the oldest of 3 siblings. I am one of 3 brothers. When Alexis went to bed that night, my wife and I talked. I said this was our last option for daycare. The other centers are too expensive and this was the only home daycare in the area that we like. A nanny is not in our budget. My wife made a million excuses, including that it’s not her fault she’s anxious. I said if we are …17K votes, 3.9K comments. true. You asked your wife to reschedule the gender reveal appointment because you wanted to go to a birthday party.. Your wife gives a valid reason for not rescheduling and you called her selfish because you wanted to go to a birthday party.. You told your wife she couldn’t go to the appointment … I told her I would pick my mom; she asked why, and I told her that I wanted to be there to say goodbye to my mom since I would never see her again, and so she would have somebody there in her final moments. She got mad and said what about her and our baby I told her I would try to be there as fast as I could after my mom, but that most likely ... My wife gave birth quite quickly considering to a beautiful baby girl, yet she is “disgusted” with the decision I made and won’t speak to me at a such an important time in our relationship. She says that I wasn’t there supporting her on the one day that we had been talking about for a literal decade and I betrayed her trust. Using the phrase "just saying" after a negative comment can dismiss a person's feelings. But understanding how to respond may help you set clear boundaries. “Just saying” is a comm...My parents told my sister, and she called to blow up at me that I'll be ruining the vacation if I'm off doing my own thing while she has to wrangle her three boys. That's a laugh. She's admitting she's ruining your vacation so as not to ruin her own! They're her kids and her responsibility. NTA. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! AITA for telling my wife not to let her 20 yo son/my stepson watch our infant. My wife and I got married a couple years ago. She has a 20 yo son from a previous relationship. We now have a 10 month old daughter together. She encourages her son to hold our baby, to push the stroller when out, etc. I 46 (M)and wife, 38 (F) has been nagging me non-stop about having another baby that I don't want. For a little bit of insight. I already had 7 children before I met my wife. I had 4 of them living with me full-time, and 3 of them I had split custody with. When I met my beautiful wife. She had a 4 month old daughter that I absolutely adore. My grandparents said I should be a bit willing to consider the idea since the kid's my half-sibling. UPDATE : I told it to him straight. I told him he's crazy if he thinks that as a 16 years old I'll take responsibility for an infant three hours a day. Not to mention zero pay and having his wife censor my reading materials.AITA for not letting my husband meet our first born child. Not the A-hole. My husband has this best friend, Anna. They've been friends for a long time and dated years ago, mutually deciding that its best for them to remain friends. I've had no problem with this relationship until now. On the day that I gave birth, Anna's brother got into a car ...It was not a sad realization, it was freeing. I want what my boss has, a woman who loves me. That's not my wife. That surname bit came to my mind. My boss's wife is proud to take his last name, to give her children his last name. Mine doesn't feel that pride. I told my wife that I want a divorce. I gave her my reason, I talked about my feelings. Update 2: AITA for refusing to give my wife of 10 years another baby. I know you all have been waiting for an update. A lot has happened, and I needed some time to process it. Thank you to all those who reached out to me to make sure I was okay. Family meeting: I learned that my wife was a good mom/ stepmother, but she was a horrible biological ... A few nights ago my wife and I began to talk about possible baby names. She mentioned her mother, Ana, and asked me how I would feel if our daughter inherited her name. I told her that I loved that idea, not only because Ana is a pretty name, but because my wife is Puerto Rican and I know how important it would be to her family if we carried on ... I felt so awful I went home and just blew up at my wife telling her she flatout fucking embarrassed me and just torpedoed any goddamned prestige and respect I had among my co workers. I told her what Austin and others have been doing and asked if she was happy for giving him emmo to come at me like that. She argued that …The cinematic adventures of adorable newborns can provide hours of entertainment. Check out 10 movies about newborns. Advertisement Forget that old Hollywood saying about never wor... I 46 (M) and wife, 38 (F) has been nagging me non-stop about having another baby that I don't want. For a little bit of insight. I already had 7 children before I met my wife. I had 4 of them living with me full-time, and 3 of them I had split custody with. When I met my beautiful wife. She had a 4 month old daughter that I absolutely adore. Feb 14, 2024 | 10:00 PM. ADVERTISING. "Aita for telling my wife that I would choose my mom over the birth of our baby" GoodShirt360. So, to get started, I am 36m, and my … My wife immediately screamed at her "shut the fuck up and let me eat or leave". My mom threw the hand towel, grabbed her stuff and left. I was so hurt by the both of them. I told my wife she was a liar. She told me she would let me handle it and she didn't. Instead she made my mom leave. ESH, you for using vile language to your wife, and her for destroying your precious photographs. She is the bigger AH here, to be clear, but you reacted in a way which will also have made your otherwise entirely justified anger look unnecessarily abusive. WTF NTA while your language was rude you are not wrong.Update: aita for telling my wife I would choose my mom over the birth of our baby. Hello again, people of reddit. Some of you asked for an update so here it is. I went back home yesterday afternoon she wasn't there I assumed she was at her mom's house. She came back in the evening and we had a talk about what happened …EDIT: 1)This is my first ever post (had to repost and also delete one time, because I did it wrong apparently), 2) I have NOTHING to do with the woman making weird comments about autoimmune issues caused by a dog, 3) My DIL was NOT in active labor when I asked- they were walking around in the hospital, trying to get things started.It was not a sad realization, it was freeing. I want what my boss has, a woman who loves me. That's not my wife. That surname bit came to my mind. My boss's wife is proud to take his last name, to give her children his last name. Mine doesn't feel that pride. I told my wife that I want a divorce. I gave her my reason, I talked about my feelings.hannafrie. •• Edited. I think the default expectation is that any children of the bride or groom will be included in the ceremony in some way. I would even think it appropriate to include the child in the vows. Unless the child has a behavioral issue that could be disruptive, your fiance is the AH here.My wife and I couldn't visit for Christmas. my parents were calling to continue complaining about us not spending Christmas with them and demanded I make it up for them. I said I …Superb_Prior_1641. AITA Because I made my parents homeless for getting rid of my dog. Not the A-hole. I (F27) lived with my parents until last week. I have a dog that I love. She has been my best friend since I graduated university. I am not very social, and I prefer her company to most people I know. I have had boyfriends and even a short ...Concerned for his baby’s health, OP asked Reddit: “AITA for saying things my wife gives our infant in front of our child’s doctor?” My wife and I have a 2 month old daughter. For the past month she’s been …Many babies spit up, or have reflux, and some have the more serious GERD. Learn the difference between the two, and their symptoms and treatments. The esophagus is the tube that ca...Anyway, after our last fight, my wife called her sobbing, saying she doesn't know what's wrong, and that we just had a fight that spiraled out of control, and now I'm leaving her and taking the kids. My mother in law said she was going to fly into town, and told her to go to the hospital in the mean time if she's afraid of hurting herself … Update 1 : 9/23/2022 My wife had the baby and they’re both healthy. I asked her on her due date if she still didn’t want me to be there and she said she wasn’t sure. She was very stressed during labor and I could tell she was really anxious so I did my best to comfort her and didn’t ask. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered! I am not The OOP, OOP is u/3004s. AITA for being upset my wife will miss our first anniversary for a bachelorette party? Originally posted to r/AITAH. Thanks to u/toketsupuurin for help on the relevant comments. TRIGGER WARNING: verbal and emotional abuse, controlling behavior Original Post Nov 12, 2023. The woman my wife …Naming a baby is a 2 yes or 1 no situation. You do not name a child something your partner does not agree with. You find a compromise. This is the start of many necessary compromises in life and it is a total AH move to unilaterally decide on a child's name despite your partner's misgivings.A husband and wife both can have a dependent care FSA to help cover the costs of childcare. However, there are some limitations to this. You can jointly contribute a maximum of $5,...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: (1) I went home after my wife didn't let me in the delivery room. (2) It is generally considered an asshole move to abandon one's pregnant spouse during labor. Help keep the sub engaging!Hey Fellas, You see that woman in the mirror? She is so full of doubt. She struggles with anxiety. She's pretty insecure. She's an introvert, masked as an extrovert. She&...Maybe you could care less about grammar. After all, it's a doggy-dog world? No. That might sound right, but it's one of 10 common phrases people say wrong. Advertisement The Englis...Earlier this year my wife gave birth to twin boys, and they’re 2 months old now. Before the kids, we would go on date nights every week, have sex 4 times at week at least and spent all our time together. We were a match made in heaven. Ever since the twins were born, she doesn’t give me any attention.She'd say I'm deliberately ruining her time with him. My son needs feeding every 2hrs and she basically makes me beg her to hand him over to me so I could feed. last night at 10PM. MIL had my son in her arms while sitting on the couch with my husband and his dad. I was exhausted, the baby started crying. I 46(M)and wife, 38(F) has been nagging me non-stop about having another baby that I don't want. For a little bit of insight. I already had 7 children before I met my wife. I had 4 of them living with me full-time, and 3 of them I had split custody with. When I met my beautiful wife. She had a 4 month old daughter that I absolutely adore. When a tiny human exits his body he gets a say on who is there to witness it. Until then he needs to take a seat and STFU. Also, the hospital might have a cap on how many people can be in the room and it will end up being a nonissue and he’ll just have been an asshole about it for no reason. 8. Akaear. Why do some clothing items have a tag saying to wash the clothing before wearing? Read this article on HowStuffWorks to learn your answer. Advertisement There are a couple of reaso...I’m just giving a small update. 1)my family is no longer in my life. 2)my wife read the post and comments and she loves all of you but was upset that I said she giggled, she wanted me to clear it up and let you all know it was a full cackle. 3)our little baby is growing and healthy (hoping for a girl)AITA for not letting my husband meet our first born child. Not the A-hole. My husband has this best friend, Anna. They've been friends for a long time and dated years ago, mutually deciding that its best for them to remain friends. I've had no problem with this relationship until now. On the day that I gave birth, Anna's brother got into a car ...17K votes, 3.9K comments. true. You asked your wife to reschedule the gender reveal appointment because you wanted to go to a birthday party.. Your wife gives a valid reason for not rescheduling and you called her selfish because you wanted to go to a birthday party.. You told your wife she couldn’t go to the appointment …A husband and wife both can have a dependent care FSA to help cover the costs of childcare. However, there are some limitations to this. You can jointly contribute a maximum of $5,... Everything was going smoothly, and we were excited for our child’s arrival. However, around the eighth month of pregnancy, Maria dropped a bombshell. She declared that she no longer wanted to go through with the surrogacy and expressed her desire to keep the child This sent Roman into a fit of anger, but I managed to get him to step out, and ... Not the A-hole. I (19f) am autistic and no one else in my family is. One of my brothers Marcus (29m) got married to Lilith (28f) a six year ago back. They lived away from here so I didn't know her that well until they moved back here a bit over a year ago. I was really happy at first to have my brother around more but that happiness didn't last ...Using the phrase "just saying" after a negative comment can dismiss a person's feelings. But understanding how to respond may help you set clear boundaries. “Just saying” is a comm... I34 m have been married to my wife for 8 years. We have a 6 year old together. My wife was also pregnant. My wife’s very spiritual, and I’m not very knowledgeable on the things she enjoys because I grew up strictly religious, but if it’s fun to her, I never minded as long as I wasn’t involved. At the baby shower, I was telling everyone how our baby was once again a girl. My MIL then decided to say, "Wow another girl! Let's hope she's not like her sister". I asked what she meant by that and she said, "we don't need any other diseases in the family. Imagine seeing a new-born baby drop to the floor and shake everywhere. It's embarrassing". . At the baby shower, I was telling everyone how our baby Obviously I think my wife is less of an asshole between the two, Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I lost my patience on my wife and said really harsh/rude things, especially in front of my children, despite the fact that I …Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I believe that I ATA because the woman had a baby with her and needed her husband next to her to help her with the … Me (35m), my wife (34f), and our two kids Both sexist and ineffective too? You may have seen the news that a certain subset of financially successful men on Manhattan’s Upper East Side are now paying wife bonuses. On the o...My wife is fully obssessed with Taylor Swift. For the last year + thats all she listens to. Every Taylor Swift album on one continuous loop when shes working out or even just walking around the house doing stuff. Spent $2k to go see her recently at the eras tour. Probably spent another $200 on merch. FIDELITY® SAI MUNICIPAL INCOME FUND- Performan...
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